don't ask.

[chiisanahito]

it should be in every person's right to like or hate something, someone, anything. and while we might like a certain things, we should remember that there are others who don't feel the same. but the haters definitely don't have the right to downstandard anything. you can state your stand, but NEVER mock people's opinions.


don't do that.


and this applies to people and relations too. you know you can tell other people about a certain person's faults and such, then you should be clear that other people can do the same to you. it all comes back to the basic "i'll respect you if you respect me" and "respect people as how you want to be respected."


it's as simple as that, but there are many idiots who don't get this. or they're just plain ignorant.


fuck everything, i won't care much about anything anymore, i have a far more important responsibility to my family, why should i care about conflicts that will just ruin my relationships with my friends?


believing in people has never been easy, i know, but i want to try to have more faith with people.
quit blaming other people, quit bitching, quit making assumptions, QUiT HiDiNG THE OBViOUS AND START EXPLAiNiNG SO PEOPLE WON'T START MAKiNG ASSUMPTIONS AND YOU WON'T HAVE TO FiND A LiE TO COVER ANYTHiNG UP AND MESS STUFF ALL OVER AGAiN.


dammit.


and if i'll fucking act however i wish to, i have the right to do so.
i don't expect anyone to understand me, and i don't think i want to be understood yet.

Comments

[harakanraakku.livejournal.com]

Some people don't just get it. Everyone has their own opinions and different ways of seeing stuff. It might make you feel a bit uncomfortable tho', especially if you have a view of something and then someone comes saying that she/he doesn't think so. Maybe even a bit annoyed like "I can't believe how someone sees it like this" but it's just something to get over with. Because we all have different backgrounds. We all come from different families and enviroments, sharing an own history.

I'm not saying that I would always understand people and be just fine with their thoughs, but at least I'm not bitching about them and throwing shit on their faces, saying that they're so wrong, wrong, WRONG.

Ho, stuff like this makes me want to express my own thoughs. I just love it when people understnad things and show their understanding to others. We, people, should write, chat, talk, just everything - discuss - a lot more and tell each other things. You can never understand a person's view well enough but we can always try. And isn't it amazing to see what a colourful snapshot of people there are, all scattered around the globe?

What a spazzy layout, I love this pink text here. Where did you get yours from, the layout you know?

[chiisanahito.livejournal.com]

yeah, it's maddening to think some people don't have at least a bit of respect to others -- somehow it's also scary.
and i agree with "And isn't it amazing to see what a colourful snapshot of people there are, all scattered around the globe?" that's a great line, genius =D
ah bout my layout? it's actually LJ's theme layout. i wanted to change the page's look neways, and i didn't really feel like customizing on my own, so i just used one of LJ's theme. and it ROCKS XDDD i love it very much =3

[harakanraakku.livejournal.com]

Yes. We're all individuals, we should pay even some respect to other people, even a really tiny amount. That's where to start.
Haha, thank you. It desrcibed my thoughs well.
Ooh, I see. It's kinda brisky, maybe a bit too pinky to my taste but it's nice anyway.
It does!